To much too soon

December 1, 2009
Eager Guy: Psst... Psst Hello There lovely and thank you very much for approving my friend request ..I hope you are enjoying this wonderful night so far.. My name is Ricardo but you may just call me Rico for short..I am really looking forward to getting to know you very well as my new friend ..WOW I gotta admit you are one beautiful looking female and whatever man that's in your life currently should not only be thankful to GOD for blessing him but for also allowing him to be in the company of such a lovely looking female.. He needs to get on his knees each and every day and thank GOD for such a GIFT that you are.. Well I'm sorry for talking your head off.. But I do at times get a little carry away when in typing.. Feel free to ask me anything that you may want to know about me ok.. I keep it honest and 100 at all times.. So if you don't mind, can you tell me a litt

August 1
Eager Guy: psst can i have ur babies?

September 15
Eager Guy: psst lets get married!

September 22
Eager Guy: psst..gm

There's not much I can say about this one. I think he's said it all. Quite frankly, these are the types of messages that makes you seem desperate. Desperate guys have low standards and they don't require a lot from the girls they date. I understand that you may have been attracted to me when you glanced at my profile picture(s) and trust me, I really do appreciate the nice things that were said (and that you were respectful and sweet), but the fact is that you do not know me. I could have put someone else's picture up and be butt-ugly in person; So, don't do it (even if you are desperate). Take it slow.

Example:

Hello There lovely. I hope you are enjoying this wonderful night so far. My name is Ricardo. I am really looking forward to getting to know you. I gotta admit you are one beautiful looking female. Feel free to ask me anything that you may want to know about me.

This would have sufficed and if I was interested in getting to know you, then I would have replied something like this:

Thank you for the compliments, hon. You're really sweet and I think you're interesting. I would like to get to know you better. Hit my inbox up when you're free.